Sandler Selling
Quick definition
A no-pressure sales methodology based on mutual qualification and up-front agreements.
Detailed explanation
Sandler Selling System, developed by David Sandler, flips the traditional sales process - you don't sell, you help the buyer buy. Core principles: you earn the right to ask questions by showing value, you're equals with the buyer (not subordinate), you search together for fit (not pushing), and you use "up-front contracts" (at the start of each conversation you align on goal, time, and what happens next). Sandler also teaches "negative reverse selling" - when a prospect has concerns, you go with it instead of against it: "It sounds like this might not be the right fit?" This removes pressure and creates psychological safety for honest conversation. Sandler is especially effective against pushback - you don't push, so there's nothing to push back against.
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Examples
Up-front contract: "We have 30 minutes. My goal is to understand if we can help. Your goal is to see if this is relevant. At the end we decide together: is there fit? If yes, what are next steps? If no, we shake hands. Deal?" → Creates psychological safety and commitment.
Prospect says "your price is too high." Traditional rep: "but our ROI..." Sandler rep: "It sounds like budget is really an issue. Maybe we shouldn't pursue this further if it doesn't work financially?" Prospect: "Well, it's not that we can't afford it, more that we need to justify..." → Through negative reverse, the real objection surfaces.
When to use this?
Use Sandler principles from start to finish: up-front contracts at every meeting, mutual qualification (qualify them, but let them qualify you too), and negative reverse for objections. Especially powerful in sales where prospects have been "sold to" aggressively by competitors - your consultative approach differentiates.
Match-day approach
Match-day integrates Sandler principles into your sales process, especially up-front contracts and mutual qualification. We train reps that they're equals with buyers - you have just as much right to qualify as they do. We also develop scripts for negative reverse per common objection. The mindset shift is important: from "I must win this deal" to "I help discover if there's fit - if not, next." This paradoxically increases win rates because prospects trust you and are honest.
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